It has became the fashion of the day and modern trend , a tradition or a general practice that , as soon a boy / girl joins an academy , college ,university , office ,their first priority is to look around in search of a girl .After selecting ( generally girls with fashioned short jeans , T shirt , open hair , glasses staying on head and tongue twisting English while chewing Gum /candy or else).After selection ,first step is to get acquaintance , The innings opens from “good morning and good evening” or exchange of “shy smiles” and finally giving gifts saying “while shopping I thought of you and bought it” ,If she accepted — Means successful trap ! ha ha !

Availing the very first opportunity boy will immediately offer lunch, Hi tea! That girl will formaly refuse under certain rational lame excuses or saying that her family is very strict vice versa finally will accept saying “I will try shall all you later” and person will jump and dance with joy ,dreaming her companionship alone and un-disturbed under dim lighting and shall start gathering money for occasion/date.

Now the “Date Day” is there .Both will wear the best dresses, half bottle perfume sparay , atleast twenty time review in mirror before leaving to destination. Both enter in a pre-determined restaurant. The first sentence boy will say —“You are looking very beautiful and smart, never seen beauty with such figures together! You are an absolute beauty! How lucky will be who get you!! Could not sleep last night because of you and dreaming you” and girl will show extreme “shyness” with a constant blushed smile on face setting her hair. In short boy will say “I LOVE YOU – CAN NOT LIVE WITHOUT YOU – YOU ARE FOR ME AND I AM FOR YOU!! The girl will bow head showing willingness!! Although the results (End) are known to everyone even then ——– . Boy will further assure to send parents to house (which will never come true)!as he wants certain “permissions” ! !

In nineties , these love matters were treated as “top secret” and kept top confidential , gradually became so open that can seen allover at in “pizza huts” , “cafes” , “restaurants” and on other “get together ceremonies” strangely none minds it in spite of “in knowledge” of parents. Boy parents do not feel any hesitation and proudly introduce the girl as friend of son! And in some houses girl parents too .The girls going alone with their boy friends are said and claimed to be “CONFIDENT” by their parents!? (My daughter is too confident).
What is this love? Why all crazy for this? What intention or “Holly Notion” behind it ? Why both sexes fall in love? Any ulterior motives? If “No” then Why they do not fall in love with brother, father or sister? What are origin of this love and why each person assures each other saying “if I failed to get you, I will commit suicide or some other drastic action”?

This love is defined by experts as under :-

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.”
(The nature of “Happiness” needs more detailing) –

“Love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it.”
(Easy available in colleges or business concerns-No need to find)

“Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside.” –
(Yes –Heart sinks at expanses but what body part become big)?

“Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale… Love loves; this is its nature.” –
(Then why girls prefer person with expansive car and heavy wallet)?

“Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end.”
(Yes-It is war – Right 2 months after love marriage)

“Love consists in this that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.” –
( Venue not mentioned )

“Where love is, no room is too small.” –
( Even net café seats enough )

“Loves make your soul crawl out from its hiding place.”
(No doubt – Lover utility bills compels to do so )

“Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”
( Why no comments upon “after effects” ?)

“Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.”
(Variates from time to time according to situation )

“To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.”
( Only for a short time with dire after effects ?)

HOW LOVE CAN BE DEFINED ?

Some say it’s mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and indefinable.

Other say “Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness.”

Another say “The willful intent to serve the well being of another.”

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. –

I am of the firm opinion that it is very difficult To describe or define “LOVE” ! For the reason that this words cannot fully describe the flavor of “IMLY’as it changes as per time accord very similar to “IMLY” as you are unable to describe its taste”.So is love !

Love itself is a universal experience. Yet, every Individual occurrence – while perhaps bound by a common thread – seems absolutely unique.

Love is what love is! To everyone it expresses itself differently.

Love is the ultimate answer to “all” questions!

Love is ultimate pleasure and happiness.

It is important to “enjoy” Love, not “fall” into it.

Love is waking up to find the object of your affection in the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder.

Could it be that Love is a story untold ?

Love is a bond or connection between two people that results in trust, intimacy, and an interdependence that enhances both partners.(although never happened)

Love is friendship set on fire?

Logic says everything in this world has a cause and an effect. True Love is the only feeling which is its own cause and its own effect. It is something illogical and yet above all logic.

Love is comforting someone in need of Love and having them know that somebody cares you?

Love must be experienced. Its meaning is infinite and can never be totally defined. Experience makes man perfect.
The opposite of Love is fear.(Jub piyar kiya to durna kiya)

Love is loving someone expecting special return;
Please do comment why everyone is in love ? and why ?