WHY CERTAIN COUPLES LIVES HAPPILY FOR YEARS WITH ZERO TENSION? WHY MANY COUPLES END IN DIVORCE WITHIN A SHORT SPAN OF TIME? WHY DIVORCE RATIO IS BOOMING ALL WORLD? “SEPRATED” ARE IN DIPLORABLE CONDITION FACING MISERIES, CHILDRED ARE IN A STATE OF SHOCK AND HIGHLY DEPRESSED? PARENTS OF BRIDE AND GROOM ARE UNDER CONSTANT MENTAL TORTURE? WHAT WILL BE THE FATE OF CHILDREN ? HOW THEY WILL PROVE “RESPONSIBLE CITIZEN” (WHEN GROWN UP). WHAT WILL BE THEIR PERSONALITY? LACK OF PEACE IN HOME LIFE WILL IMPACT WHAT UPON THEIR PERSONALITY?

MAIN CORE IS TO LOOK FOR THE ROUTE CAUSES “ WHY TENSION TAKE PLACE INBETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE? LOOK AT WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHS OF THAT COUPLE, THEIR TEETH ARE OUT WITH JOY AND HAPPINESS, EYES OOZING LOVE AND PASSION, BOTH FULL OF THRILL. THEN WHY ALL TURNS INTO NEGATIVITY RESULTING IN “CONSTANT QURREL” IN HOME? WHY THE SWORN “HOLLY VERSUS” TURNS INTO ABUSES? WHY LOVE TURNS INTO HATERED? THE FACE, WHICH WAS RESEMBLED WITH “MOON” TURNS INTO “THE MOST UGLY, CURSED FACE” OF UNIVERSE? HUBBY BECOMES “ NUBBY”?

“ATTARCTION” AND “UNDERSTANDING” STANDS GAURANTEE FOR A STRONG RELATIONSHIP INBETWEEN LIFE PARTNERS. ATTRACTION OF ACTIONS, UNDERSTANDINGS, LOVING BEHAVIOUR AND TAKING CARE OF EACH OTHER, CONTRIBUTE FOR A PROLONGED RELATIONSHIP AS A HAPPY LIFE.

ABSENSE OF ABOVE MENTIONED PRACTICE IN BETWEEN PARTNERS LEADS TO A SLOW AND CASUAL INVOLVES IN NORMAL & DAILY ROUTINE, SYMPTOMISING ESCAPING. A PERSON HAS MAINLY TWO TASKS AFTER MARRIAGE; ONE FOR FAMILY AND OTHER FOR EARNING SOURCE. HE HAVE TO TAKE CARE BOTH EQUALLY WHILE KEEPING BOTH IN BALANCE AND SCALED, WHICH IS A TOUGH JOB ITSELF. ANY IMBALLLANCE IN BOTH WILL RESULT IN “DOMESTIC DISTURBANCE’’ AND TOO MANY COMPLICATION MAY ARISE.

WHEN A PERSON REACHES HOME LEAVING OFICE, HE EXPECTS THAT HIS WIFE SHOULD WELCOME HIM IN A FRESH MOOD, IN A CHEERFULL WAY, WHEREAS SHE IS ACTUALLY HEAVILY TIRED OF HARDSHIP “INDOOR ACTIVITIES, AND SPECIALLY IF SHE IS A WORKING LADY.NOW HUSBAND COULD NOT GET “EXPECTED SITUATION” SO, THIS SITUATION SOWS A “BITTER SEED” INBETWEEN, SO AN UN-ANNOUNCED, SYMPTOMLESS TENSION CREATES. HUSBAND WILL GO TO HIS ROOM AND STAY THERE SILENTLY, WHEREAS WIFE SILL STAY IN HER MOOD. THIS IS” LACK OF UNDERSTANDING / COMFIDENCE”. THIS SMALL PLANT WHEN TURNS INTO A TREE, ITS WILL PRODUCE FRUITS KNOWN AS “DIVORCE”.WISE COUPLE NOTIFIES THIS SITUATION UNDELAYED AND SOLVE THE PROBLEM AT VERY BEGNING WHEREAS “EEGO CONCIOUS” DOES NOT DISCUSS WITH EACH OTHER THINKING UN THEIR MIND THAT “ WHY HE IS NOT TAKING CARE OF ME? HE/SHE DOES NOT KNOW I AM TIRED”? AND THAT IS THE FIRST BITTER SEEED.

A DISAPPOINTMENT IS THE MAJOR FACTORS FOR FADING ATTRACTION TOWARDS HER. MEN TOO FACE THIS SITUATION WHEN THEY DEEPLY INVOLVE THEMSELVES IN THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES IN OFFICE OR ELSEWHERE. (EARNINGS)

FAILURE TO GIVE TIME FOR THE FAMILY OR WIFE IS A SERIOUS COMPLAINT, WOMAN IN THE HOUSE DOES NOT GRASP THUS BLAMES HUSBAND FOR THE NEGLIGENT AND CARELESS BEHAVIOUR. SPECIALLY WHEN WIVES PASS REMARKS IN A POCKING WAY OR IN SHAPE OF A SATIRE WHICH ENFUELS HUSBAND RAGE.IT IS KNOWN BY ALL THAT “RAGE PARALYSIS” HEAD AND QURREL STARTS WHICH MAY END AT DIRE CONSEQUENCES.IN SUCH CASES BOTH ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR DIEING AWAY ATTRACTION TO KEEP HEALTHY RELATION. ATTRACTION OF PARTNER NORMALLY FADES AS TIME PASSES; THIS IS NATURAL & THE REAL TRUTH.

FADING ATTRACTION DRIVES TO INCLINE TOWARDS FRESH AND NEW ATTRACTIONS , LIKE SECRATERIES OR OTHER FEMALE CO-WORKERS OR COLLEGUES. WHEN THIS NEWS FLASHES, IT ENFUELS WIFE .NOW HOME PEACE BECOMES DREAM. MAN SHOULD GRATIFY WIFE AT THIS STAGE TO FULFIL WHAT IS LOST. THOSE WHO ARE EXPOSED TO EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT ARE EASILY DRAGGED TOWARDS THESE ATTRACTIONS.

EACH WORKING WOMAN OR MAN, ARE INFLUENCED BY EXTERNAL ATMOSPHERE, THEY ARE BOUND TO HATE OR APPROVE ONE OF MANY SHE/ HE MEETS OR CONTACTS . BEHAVIOUR OF AN INDIVIDUAL INFLUENCES OTHERS, TO OBSERVE AND ANALYSE PERSONALITY, AS GOOD OR BAD OR SO-SO; IN ALL CONDITIONS OF YES OR NO OR SO-SO, HAS THE ABILITY TO ATTRACT IN NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE ONE TO LIKE AND ANOTHER TO DESPISE, SO-SO ESCAPING FROM THIS SITUATION IS IMPOSSIBLE, AS THE BRAIN WAVE REACTS INSTANTLY TO ALARMING IT RIGHT OR WRONG. THE APPROVAL, DECIDES STATUS OF ACCEPTANCE / REJECTION OF THAT PERSONALITY, IN THE OFFICES OR OTHER WORK PLACE.ONE SHOULD BE OPEN MINDED, MEETING WITH NORMS OF SOCIETY, ALLOWING SPOUSES TO MEET THEIR COLLEAGUES OF BOTH SEXES.

HOWEVER, NO ONE CAN STOP IMAGINING THE DOMINANT PERSONALITY OF COLLEAGUE (OPPOSITE-SEX). THAT MEANS COLLEAGUE’S PERSONALITY HAS INFLUENCED ENOUGH TO REMEMBER AND ENTERED IN THE LIFE. NOW WORKING WOMAN/ MAN MAINTAINS RELATION WITH TWO, ONE PHYSICAL RELATION AND WORKING MEN AND WOMEN SPEND MORE ON WORKING HOURS THAN STAYING WITH SPOUSE. SPEND MOST OF THEIR DAY WITH THEM EATING, CHATTING, AND JOKING ETC; THESE DEVELOP WARM RELATION TO STEP FURTHER TO GET CLOSER, WHICH IS NOTICED BY THE VICINITY. THIS REPUTATION MAY IMPACT NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE, AND IN BOTH WAY IT SHAKES HOME PEACE.(EXCEPTIONS ARE ALWAYS THERE)

WORKING WOMAN OF STRONG CHARACTER HAVING HAPPY MARRIED LIFE LIMITS OTHERS TO MOVE FORWARD AND STRONG CHARACTER WITH SHATTERED MARRIED LIFE WILL DEFINITELY MOVE FORWARD TO GET CLOSER, WILL NOT EVEN CARE THE SOCIAL IMPACT. NEVER FORGET, GOD CREATED WOMEN WITH SOFT CLAY, THEY ARE MUCH WEAKER IN NERVOUS SYSTEM, EMOTIONS, AS COMPARED TO MAN.IT IS VERY EASY TO TRAP THEM WHEN DISTURBED OR UPSET, SPECIALLY IN DOMESTIC LIFE.WOMEN TRUSTS SOON, SO BETRAYED SOON.

ON THE OTHER HAND WOMAN OF WEAK CHARACTERS ARE EASILY MOTIVATED TO LUXURY OF EMOTIONS IRRESPECTIVE OF HOME ATMOSPHERE. AS FAR AS MEN ARE CONCERNED MAJOR PERCENTAGE BELIEVE IF SHE AGREES I WILL NOT MISS THE GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY. THOSE WHO CARE OF POUSES, WILL KEEP SECRET RELATIONSHIP AVOID ANY CLASH IN DOMESTIC LIFE.

ENVIRONMENTAL EFFECT OF HOME AND SPOUSE, IF STRONGER HE/SHE INCLINES TOWARDS HOME AND IF NOT THE AFFECTION STARTS WITH THE COLLEAGUE. COLLEAGUE’S INITIATION HELPS TO ESTABLISH UNION, SOME MANAGE SECRET RELATION AND SOME DARE TO GET RID OF OLD RELATIONSHIP OPENLY.

SEXUAL APPETITE IS ESSENTIAL NEED OF AN ADULT. SOME ARE CONTENT AND SOME HAVE GREAT DESIRE DUE TO GENETIC CHARACTERISTIC, FOR THEM CONTROLLING SEXUAL DESIRE IS VERY DIFFICULT. THEY NEED TO EXTINGUISH THEIR HUNGER SO ARE IN SEARCH AND HUNT FOR BUDDIES.

MOST WOMEN CONTROL THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES DESPITE INADEQUATE HUNGER; SUCH PEOPLE ARE GENERALLY UPSET, RESTLESS, TEDIOUS IN THEIR NORMAL LIFE.

SEXUAL HUNGER IS A NATURAL PROCESS CONNECTED WITH BODY AND BRAIN, AS ONLY THE RELIEF IS BY THE PROCESS SO NOT EASY TO CONTROL.UNNATURAL CONTROLLING MAY LEAD TO MAJOR PSYCHOLOGICAL DISEASES SUCH AS DEPRESSION, SICKNESS AND LIFELESSNESS ETC; ARE ENOUGH TO INVITE BLOOD PRESSURE, MENTAL AND PHYSICAL PROBLEMS ETC

IT DOES NOT MEAN THOSE WHO FOLLOW SOCIAL NORMS ARE HONEST, THEY TOO HAVE THE FEELINGS AND DESIRES WHICH THEY REPRESS IN ORDER TO AVOID FACING SOCIAL CONSEQUENCES, INDICATES THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY PREPARED FOR RELATION BUT SOCIAL BOUNDARIES DO NOT PERMIT.

IT IS EMOTIONAL SUICIDE IN ORDER TO AVOID PHYSICAL SUICIDE; EACH OF US HAS A DESIRE FOR FULFILMENT OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL NEEDS BECAUSE OUR BODY AND BRAIN CELLS REQUIRE THEM FOR SMOOTH FUNCTIONING.

BOTH SOCIAL ACCOUNTABILITY AND THE ENTITY CLASH IN OUR MIND, WHICH EVER OVERPOWERS – DIRECTS US TO ACT. FOR WOMEN; IN MOST CASES SOCIAL ACCOUNTABILITY COMES FORWARD AND SHE KILLS OWN DESIRES. SHE INDULGES ONLY IN CASE OF AWFUL RELATION OR VENGEANCE OR TOO STRONG ATTRACTION CONQUERS.

FOR THE CHEATED PARTNER IT IS INFIDELITY AS LONG AS CHEATER IS LIVING AND SHARING FAMILY AFFAIRS. IT IS NATURAL THAT NO ONE WOULD WISH PARTNER TO SHARE SEXUAL EMOTIONS AND RELATION WITH SOMEONE ELSE, IT HURTS AND GIVES PAIN TO THE HEART AS BOTH ARE ASSETS OF EACH OTHER.

RELATION BREAKS AS NO ONE WOULD PREFER TO STAY TOGETHER WITH DISHONEST COMPANION UNLESS ONE IS SO GRATEFUL TO FORGIVE AND FORGET THE DISHONESTY. AS LONG AS THERE ARE WIFE AND HUSBAND AND MARRIAGE; EXTRA MARITAL RELATION WILL IN ILLEGAL – DECEITFUL AND WILL BE CALLED “INFIDELITY”.

AS FOR BOTH WIFE AND HUSBAND, IT IS AN ISSUE OF DEPENDABILITY, SECURITY, EMOTION OF TOGETHERNESS AS WIFE AND HUSBAND, SHARING AND SACRIFICING LIFE TO MAINTAIN FAMILY AND STATUS POP AND MOM. WOMEN ARE MORE CONCERNED AS FAMILY IS THEIR SECURITY, TOGETHERNESS AND LIFE.

ALL DREAMS OF FAMILY AND ITS FUTURE COLLAPSES IN CASE OF ANY ONE SWITCHES TO EXTRA MARITAL RELATION. THIS BECOMES DISHONESTY MARRIED FAMILY. EACH OF FIND THE REASONS AS WHY DID SHE/HE GO FOR IT WAS HE/SHE NOT HAPPY.
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FINANCIAL CRISES OR LESS EARNING LEADS TO “HOME DISTURBANCE. COUPLE SHOULD DISCUSS AND GET NEW SOURCE TO EARN MORE, OR RESCHEDULING BUDGET OR CURTAILING EXPANSE.

TRY TO SPEND MAXIMUM POSSIBLE TIME AT HOME WITH FAMILY IN A HAPPY MOOD, TELLING JOKES AND SHARING DAILY ROUTINE EXPERIENCES, INCIDENTS IN LIGHT MODE.

WHEN GET SALARY, OR EARN SOME EXTRA, DO BRING SOME GIFT FOR WIFE, MAY BE SMALL. THIS PRACTICE WILL DEVELOPE A POSITIVE SENSE IN WIFE THAT HUSBAND CARES HER A LOT.

WHENEVER CONVENIENT, PLAN AN OUTDOOR TRIP, MAY BE THE NEARES PARK, IT WILL EXPOSE YOUR LOVE WITH FAMILY.

TAKE A LOT CARE OF INLAWS, THIS IS THE MOST SENSATIVE, WEAK POINT OF WIFE / HUSBAND. BRINGING GIFTS FOR MOTHER INLAW / SISTERS INLAW WILL INCREASE YOUR WORTH / RESPECT.

COOK DELICIOUS FOOD, BECAUSE LOVE OOZES FROM STOMACHS OF HUSBANDS.FAVOURITE DISH LEADS TO EXTREME LOVE. IT WILL SHOW YOUR DEDICATION TOO.

WOMEN LIVE IN HOME WAITING LONG-LONG FOR SPOUSE, SO GETS BORE. THEY MUST BE PROVIDED SOME EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITES.

DO NOT OBJECT UPON WIFE FRIEND . IN CASE OF ANY GENUINE SERIOUS OBJECTION, MAKE UNDERSTAND YOUR WIFE WITH FIRM EVIDENCE AND CONVINCE HER LOGICALLY.REST SHE WILL MANAGE HER SELF.

EVERY ONE IS HONEST AS LONG AS DOESN’T GET THE OPPORTUNITY. MOST PREFER TO FOLLOW SOCIAL NORMS AND DO

CHANGE PARTNER MIND, INVITE AND MOTIVATE HIS/HER INVOLVING IN FAMILY ACTIVITIES. GO TO SOME THEATER , CINEMA OR NEARBY PARK.

THINK HOME AND KIDS BEFORE GETTING ATTRACTED OR FALLING IN LOVE WITH ANYONE. – STRONG CHARACTERS WILL RESTRICT TO LIMITATIONS (IF YOU HAVE).

INCREASE EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT OF THE PARTNER TOWARDS FAMILY BY REMINDING RESPONSIBILITIES AND EMOTIONAL TOUCH UP.

PSYCHOLOGICAL TREATMENT OF WEAK CHARACTER OF SEXUALLY ADDICTED PARTNER.

RESPECT THE ENTITY AND INTEGRITY OF A PARTNER.

WRONG AND CRUEL HOME ATMOSPHERE LEADS TO MANY AGONIES. TRY TO CHANGE IN SOFT AND SYMPATHETIC.

MANY WOMEN IN THE OFFICES ARE INFLUENCED BY BOSSES INVITING FOR MALAFIDE INTENSIONS. THIS “ UNCOMMON” BEHAVIOUR IS COMMON IN MANY OFFICES. UNDER THESE CIRCUMSTANCES HUSBAND IS BEST.HE SHOULD ADVICE WIFE HOW TO TACKLE SITUATION. RISKING JOB IS NO MATTER IF HUSBAND PREFERS TO HANDLE LEGALLY WITH SUCH BOSSES.THESE “CORRUPT” BOSSES RAE BASICALLY VERY COWARD BY NATURE. A SLIGHT THREAT FROM WOMEN WILL MAKE THEM “PISSIN”. THERE THE WOMEN MUST BE BOLD ENOUGH.

NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD, THE WAY WE THINK, BRAIN PRODUCES THE SAME. IF YOU SEE A CLOSE RELATIVE LADY TRAVELLING IN CAR WITH A STRANGER, WHAT YOU WILL THINK? SURELY NEGATIVE —— YOU WILL CHASE THAT CAR AND BRING GUN OUT TO FIRE? THE SAME RELATIVE LADY WILL CRY OF, INFORMING THAT HE IS THE PERSON WHO SAVED HER FROM CERTAIN ROUDIES, TRYING TO KIDNAP HER? AND HE WAS ON THE WAY TO DROP HER AT HOME SAFELY! NOW WHAT WOULD BE YOUR REACTION? NOW YOUR GUN WILL GO DOWN AND YOU WILL START PAYING THANKS. WHAT IS ALL THIS?

MAKE UP MIND, “SOME TIMES WHAT YOUR EYES SEE, IS NPT CORRECT. NEVER ALLOW EMOTIONS TO RULE YOU, BUT YOU RULE EMMOTIONS. DO NOT BELIEVE UNLESS SURE, VERY SIMILAR TO INTERNATIONAL LAW “ ALL ARE INNOCENT UNLESS PROVED GUILTY” SO MAKE UP YOUR MIND, YOU WILL NEVER DIVORCE , UNLESS OTHERVIZ “INEVITABLE”.